On December 12th, Sam was hit by a car while riding his bicycle and suffered a traumatic brain injury. This is his journey.

Saturday, January 9, 2016

Sam's Journey - Day 29

Sam has had several days of relative quiet. We've been doing a lot of different things, and with little news to report, the blog was quiet as well. The general rule of thumb with the blog is No News is Good News, or in other terms, No News means No Bad News. I'm sure it breaks some unwritten protocol somewhere for effective blogging, but that's me, ever the rebel. In reality, we've been pretty busy. On Thursday, Jim and Aaron drove back to college in Boulder, and Jim flew home on Friday morning. About an hour after he got to the hospital, Aaron called saying the wipers had gone out, because there's really just not enough going on right now. (They are fixed now.) Today, I drove to see Sarah's softball tournament in Round Rock (3 hours each way) since she's kind of getting the short end of the stick lately. She was really surprised to see me. They won one and lost one, and it was painfully cold and windy out there. (With the wind, Feels Like temp was around 35 degrees.) I think they were just glad when it was over and could get inside a warm place. She's really starting to find her groove, and had a couple of RBI's and a nice catch in center field after which she almost picked the runner off second. I'm glad I was able to go, and it was very nice to be able to visit with people and be a somewhat normal mom. 

I know what you are most interested in is hearing about Sam's progress, so I won't make you wait any longer. Considering the situation in which he finds himself, he is doing great. His levels all seem to be trending in the right direction, and his kidneys are handling everything well all on their own. Today, they removed his NJ tube, which means the G tube is also working well. The little bit of swelling after the surgery to replace the bone flap continues to go down. He is really starting to look like himself. On the not so positive side, something he does that is simply jarring to hear is when he grinds his teeth. He was a grinder before all of this, and it was equally cringeworthy then. I'll take teeth grinding over kidney failure and a TBI any day, though.

The big, fun news of the day is that he was responding to the request to move his right thumb! Prior to that, Jim and I were having a rough time because it was All State audition day. We are sincerely happy for those that made it, but Sam put his heart and soul into that, and we know he would have done well. It all just seems so grossly unfair. But after he moved his thumb on command, that all went away. We really feel like there is something bigger than All State waiting for this child, and the thumb is just another baby step in the right direction. In addition to that, his expression seems, to us at least, to be more interactive. His eyes appeared to just be more reactive to conversation and have more emotion behind them. It's hard to explain what I was seeing, but in my heart of hearts, I really feel like he will be coming out of his current state soon, which leads me to an update on someone else.

I got an email from Donna saying that one month to the day from his accident, Kyle completely woke up and was moved to rehab the next day. Despite the exhausting work of recovery, he continues to improve. This is incredible news, and it gives us hope that one day soon, that will happen for Sam, too. Also, I just checked on young Aaron's page, and it appears that he is doing ok in the same way that Sam is. Good stuff!

Thank you for your continued prayers. The MRI is still scheduled for Monday, and we believe he will be moved to "the floor" around that time as well. (I'm thinking it is just the regular trauma floor.) This means he no longer requires trauma ICU services. Woot! Your continued prayers for improvement, good MRI results and that Sam "wakes up" soon are appreciated. Thank you, #teamsam!

Photo swap! Thanks, Sharon, for finding one with thumbs up! This is from their mission trip in Chicago/National Youth Gathering in Detroit this past summer.




14 comments:

  1. Praise God! Thank you for your grace and mercy. Thank you for the signs of progress to Sam, Kyle and Aaron. We ask for good MRI results for Sam, he continues to heal and wake up soon. We ask this in your name Amen

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  3. Praying for you Sam. Coach Deaton

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  4. So love hearing the good news about Sam responding to a request to move his thumb, that his facial expressions seem more interactive and his kidneys are handling the load on their own! Also glad that you got a mini-break to Round Rock to spend time with Sarah and others outside a hospital environment. Praying for a successful MRI tomorrow and a speedy wake-up. Thank you for your diligence in posting.

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  5. As I was reading day 29, the song Holy Spirit by Brian and Katie Torwalt came on Pandora. So appropriate to reinforce the faith you have in the healing plans for Sam. He is there, oh, to be more aware!

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  6. Good news!! As ever, eternally in thought and prayer for all of you.

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  7. Thanks for the updates on Sam & the family! The pictures give me joy. When I read your blog about the music Sam enjoys, it reminded me of the time he impressed our 7th grade Science class with the ENTIRE PerodicTable song. For anyone who is unfamiliar with this accomplishment-Google it! He was amazing! He still is an amazing creation from God! I continue praying for all of you. Mrs.Easley

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  8. Happy to read the good news.Sam and your family are constantly in our thoughts and prayers.

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  9. So glad to hear he's continuing to grow and get better!
    Also glad to hear you and Sarah had an awesome weekend with the team! Missed yall

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  10. So glad to hear. We just need you to wake up now Sam. All waiting to see you. Lots of Love

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  11. Love this photo swap. His expressions crack me up. Not sure if he reminds me more of you or Jim!

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  12. Thankful for the good report. Continuing to keep you all in prayers. HUGS. Great job to both you and your hubby for keeping your eyes on Christ. Yes, I believe God has great plans for Sam as well. Joseph certainly did not choose to be sold by his brothers and suffer one set back after another for 20 years - but when his brothers came trembling before him as second in command to Pharoah, his words were that it was all part of God's plan. Not easy, but Christ knows that - as we see what He went through for us. Knowing the Lord of life and love makes such an amazing difference. Prayers that all God wills be accomplished in your lives.

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  13. Great photo. Will continue to keep Sam, and all of you, in thoughts and prayers today as you await the MRI. R&L in Valpo.

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