1/9/17 - Sam's Journey - Onward

The first week of school was a success! There were some minor glitches, but overall, it's just good to have him back there again. We have to work on some things, like using his planner, even though Sam feels like his memory can handle it. (He used to have a near photographic memory. Now? Not so much.) I'm not loving the homework, even though it's not really that much. I'm just spoiled that for the previous 12 odd years of his academic career, he essentially did everything independently. I don't think he took a break this week in any classes, even though he is allowed to do that at any point. That is simultaneously great and awful. We're not sure if he's really doing that well, or if he is just powering through because he's, well, Sam. We really don't want any excessive fatigue on his brain which is still healing, and despite all of the progress made, has a considerable way to go. Even though he's still adjusting to his schedule, he manages to keep his humor throughout the day. He was having some brace issues, and so I thought I'd check in with him today. Here is our text conversation:

Message received.

So all things are going well with the big return to school. Thanks for all of the well wishes and support as we move through this transition!

I wasn't going to write tonight, but I have been pretty lost in thought this whole evening. I found out that Tyler, the young man whose accident was a month before Sam's, is not doing well, and is getting ready to move to hospice care. I have been profoundly affected by this news. His mom has been fighting this same fight for her child, and loves him just as fiercely as we love Sam, yet the outcomes are so vastly different. My heart hurts for her and the rest of her family, and it is my hope that they can eventually find some peace in knowing they gave their all to help him recover, and that Tyler felt the constant love they showed him during every minute of their journey. They are all in our prayers, and we hope you will add them to yours as well. 

Sorry to end on such a somber note, but ever since I started this blog, it has been the best place for me to process thoughts I can't manage in my own head. You are a wonderfully patient and forgiving audience, and I thank you for bearing with me when things get heavy. Peace to you, #TeamSam, as you go through your week.